Your thoughts create your reality. If you fail to attract what you want, here are few possible reasons.

1. Focusing on what you can`t have, do or be. If you want to attract what you want but your thoughts are on what you can`t have, do or be it,  you will keep attracting what you don`t want.

You need to keep focused on what you want and every time you get a thought that says you can`t have it, you need to change that thought immediately by thinking and believing you can and you will have what you want.

2. Focusing on past. If you try to attract what you want but your thoughts are on your past, you will most likely fail. if you keep focusing on your past and see how things has always been, you keep creating exactly that.

If you say you always been like ____(fill in the blank) or you have never been able to find a real success and happiness in life and you focus on that, you will never change yourself or attract success and happiness. Let go of your past. Let go of your past or you will doom yourself to have nothing more than what has always been. Focus on what you want and trust it`s already yours.

3. Focusing on what is. If your thoughts are on what is in your life right now, you will keep getting more of it. If you think your kids are always like this or that, you don`t like the way your partner treats you or you don`t have enough money to pay your bills…

Yeah, that`s right, if you focus on what is, you will keep to attract what is. You need to understand your current life is only a mirror for thoughts you have been thinking so far. You have created your current life with your thoughts.

Start looking what you like about your current life. Search for things you are grateful for and allow yourself to feel good…Because to attract what you prefer, you should feel good now and focus on more good you want to create.

4. Focusing on what other people want and expect from you. This is one of the hardest issues. If you focus on what they want from you, you will never attract what you want. Read the previous sentence again…and then think about it.

Who else than you can be living YOUR life? Who else than YOU can decide what you want to do with your life?

There are people who look for approval so much that they let others to decide what`s best for them and that`s the most horrifying thing that could happen!

What if others suddenly stop their expectations? You would be totally lost because your life had been based on someone else`s idea of who you should be.

You are on this planet for a reason and no-one else than you can find out that purpose. Search for that inner joy and let it lead you to your purpose…and when you find your purpose, you will attract everything you have ever dreamed of.

-Lauri

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